A Celebration of Love and Legacy: Freud Musanu Delivers a Memorable Wedding Speech

The air was thick with joy and anticipation as families, friends, business associates, and well-meaning Zambians from both the diaspora and Zambia converged to celebrate the union of Ruth and Albert. It was an event marked by lavish hospitality, where guests indulged in an abundance of food, truly an “eat as you can” affair with generous takeaways, ensuring everyone left with full hearts and satisfied appetites. Amidst the vibrant celebrations, a truly special moment unfolded as Freud Musanu, President of the Zambia Diaspora of Chamber (ZDCC), stepped forward to deliver a heartfelt wedding speech on behalf of the esteemed Chief Munkonge of the Bemba speaking people of Northern Zambia.

The presence of Mrs. Musanu, who was described as elegantly and eloquently spoken, added to the grace of the occasion. Freud Musanu’s opportunity to speak on behalf of the Chief was a rare and deeply treasured honor, one he approached with profound respect and humility.

A Speech from the Heart: Honouring Ruth and Welcoming Albert

From the moment he began, Freud Musanu captivated the audience, earning applause at every turn for his all-inclusive and profoundly respectful address. His speech, delivered with warmth and genuine welcome, began with a solemn prayer, setting a sacred tone for the proceedings:

“Good morning Ladies and gentlemen, honored guests, and most especially, our beloved couple—Ruth and Albert—today, we stand not just in a hall, but on holy ground. Let us pray:

‘Father God, as You blessed the wedding at Cana with Your presence, sanctify this union today. May every word spoken, every vow made, and every prayer lifted here become a seed for generations to come. In Jesus’ name, Amen.’”

Introducing himself as “Freud Musanu, brother-in-law to the bride,” he lightened the mood with a touch of humor, acknowledging his wife, Chiluba, Ruth’s younger sister, and quipping, “As you can see, beauty runs in the family.”

He then conveyed the immense honor he felt: “It’s with great honor and pride standing here today representing Chief Munkonge and the rest of the Munkonge family in celebrating the wedding of my sister-in-law Ruth and Pastor Albert.”

Freud spoke glowingly of Ruth, highlighting her admired qualities: “Ruth is admired by many for her kindness, hard work and most of all her sense of humor. She has her own unique way making us laugh even when we are feeling down. She has always been that bright light in our lives. Ruth is a career diplomat. She served at the Zambian embassy in Germany for 8 yrs before venturing into business. Through her hard work, she has managed to set up a number of businesses. Ruth I just want to let you know that your family is proud of you and we celebrate you.”

Turning his attention to the groom, Freud extended a warm welcome from the family: “Pastor Albert, the Munkonge family has asked me to let you know that you are welcome into the family. I first met Pastor Albert just a few weeks ago when he came to Kansas City to pick up his bride. Your kindness and love for Ruth is truly special and the family is so happy to have you. The family has no doubt that you are the perfect match for Ruth.”

The Power of Covenant Love and Community Legacy

With the stage set, Freud transitioned to the core message of his speech: the profound significance of covenant love.

“With that said, please allow me to speak about the power of covenant love.”

I. The Power of Covenant Love

“Ruth and Albert, your love story is a testament to divine timing. Like Ruth in the Bible, you chose loyalty over convenience—leaving the familiar for a God-written future. Albert, like Boaz, you recognized virtue and said, ‘I do’ to God’s plan. This is no accident; it’s destiny.”

He then shared a poignant anecdote illustrating the strength found in faith within marriage:

“The Threefold Cord I met a couple in Kansas City who had been married at that time for 50 years. When I asked them what their secret was. They responded by saying, ‘We fought, but we never let go of God’s hand.’ Ruth and Albert, when disagreements come—and they will—remember: a cord of three strands (Ruth + Albert + God) cannot be broken (Ecclesiastes 4:12).”

II. Serve Together

Freud emphasized the importance of partnership in ministry and life: “Pastor Albert, your flock will grow as Ruth stands beside you. Remember: the strongest ministries are built at home first.”

III. Charge to the Community

He then broadened his message, issuing a powerful call to action to all present, especially the Zambian community:

“To all gathered here—especially our Zambian family—this marriage is our shared legacy. Parents: Model forgiveness. Your children are watching. Friends: Be their safe space, not gossip fuel. Diaspora Kin: Let’s replicate this love in our communities. Send skills, not just money, to build Zambia.“

IV. Prophetic Declaration

In a moment of spiritual declaration, Freud spoke blessings over the newly married couple:

“Albert and Ruth, I speak over you: Finance: Like Isaac in Genesis 26, may you reap 100-fold in famine. Health: No weapon formed against your home shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Legacy: Your love will birth generational blessings, from Dallas, Texas to Lusaka, Zambia“

VI. Closing Gratitude & Celebration

Freud concluded his moving speech with heartfelt thanks to everyone who had contributed to the joyous occasion:

“To those who sent gifts from Kasama, Northern Province of Zambia, and Maamba in Southern Province. Those who prayed from Dallas or traveled from afar—thank you. As we dance and feast, remember love shared is love multiplied. ‘To Ruth and Albert—may your love be as endless as the African sky!’“

“Thank you.”

A Day of Unforgettable Moments

Freud Musanu’s speech was met with continuous applause, a testament to its profound impact and the respect he commanded. It was a masterclass in public speaking, seamlessly blending personal warmth with profound wisdom and cultural reverence.

Following the captivating speech, Ruth and Albert took center stage, their faces beaming with happiness. They extended their heartfelt gratitude to every single person who had graced their special day. With warm smiles and genuine appreciation, they presented gifts and tokens of thanks, blessing their guests and wishing them safe journeys back to their respective destinations. The entire event was a beautiful tapestry of love, community, and shared joy, leaving an indelible mark on all who attended.